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You are here, Day 14

Today’s reading is drawn from 1 Timothy 5:1-8.

Not long ago I was somewhere — I think it was Phoenix, but I’m not sure since I didn’t ask for directions — and I was going on another adventure through a big shopping mall. This has been, for some reason, a favorite pastime of mine when I’m in a city that I don’t visit often. After a few wrong turns, I found the big, lighted mall directory. I did not ask for directions — “Excuse me, can you please give me directions to the directions?” I stood there for a few minutes, surveying the way the mall was laid out.

I decided to strike out toward one of the bookstores, but there was a problem — a very serious problem. Some practical joker had pulled the “You are here” sticker off the directory. “How can I possibly get to where I want to go from where I am, unless I know where I am?” I said out loud. No one answered.

The text you read today describes the landscape of your relationships as clearly as the directory at that Phoenix mall. “Do not rebuke an older man harshly . . . treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity. Give proper recognition to those widows who are really in need . . . Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever” (4:1 – 3,8).

But all of these instructions are a waste of space unless you and I take an honest look at where we are. If, when we read this list, we say to ourselves, Respecting older men? I do that. Treating young men with friendship and not condescension? I do that. Honoring older women? I do that. Esteeming young women and revering their purity? I do that. Providing for my family’s every need? I do that, too. But if we say these things and don’t do them, we’re as lost as I was in Phoenix.

Life is a lot of hard work. People count on us. They watch us to see how we speak, how we react under pressure, how we honor others and them. We can never go on vacation from these responsibilities. We are always in the process of working on them. But if we haven’t taken a sober look at where we are in our relationships — if we have looked the other way rather than dealing honestly with our propensity for selfishness, dishonor and laziness — these relationships will never be healed. . . .

“Father in Heaven,” we may need to humbly confess, “I am impatient with my elders, patronizing to young people, unaware of people in need, and insensitive to my family. But Your presence helps me to admit my lostness, Your grace forgives me of these failings, and Your wisdom gives me the direction I need. Thank you. Amen.”

4 U.S. City Names That Aren’t Pronounced How You Think

Can you pronounce these city names: Nunathloogagamiutbingoi, Ouachita, Zzyzx, and Ocoee? Ready for your next challenge? See how many of these five unusually pronounced U.S. city names you can figure out.

Worcester, Massachusetts

Worcester, Massachusetts

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The spelling indicates it would be pronounced as wore-chester. Oddly, the correct pronunciation is “wooster,” as the locals will be quick to tell you.

The second-most populous city in Massachusetts, Worcester still has a small-town feel. Resident Esther Howland, a local artist who popularized Valentine’s Day cards in the late 1800s, is still revered. Natives pride themselves on all sectors of their rich history in the country, such as their massive contribution to the Industrial Revolution. The city is also home to the country’s oldest music festival, The Worcester Music Festival, founded in 1858.

The Nipmuc Tribe were the areas first inhabitants and they called it Quinsigamond, which isn’t any easier to pronounce. Daniel Gookin and John Elliot, English settlers, purchased a deed to eight miles of the land in 1674, and began to fill it with other colonists.

It was abandoned several times throughout King Philip’s War and Queen Anne’s War but eventually rose again when Jonas Rice settled the area in 1713, and gave it the name Worcester, after the English town of the same name.

La Jolla, California

La Jolla, California

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Interestingly, residents disagree on the origin of this city’s name. Many say it comes from a Native American word meaning holes. Others insist its roots are in the Spanish word for jewel. The only thing they agree upon is pronunciation, La-Hoy-Uh.

The Native American story says the Kuneyaay named the city Mat Kulaaxuuy, another tongue twister, meaning land of holes in reference to the many caves at sea level. The Spanish story says that the Spaniard translated the Native American name to La Joya, or The Jewel. Although scholars dispute this reference, it led to the cities nickname of Jewel City.

Famous for its perfect weather (it’s always sunny, and 70 degrees as the residents like to joke), La Jolla has many venues to enjoy the picture-perfect landscapes and weather, including Black’s Beach, the country’s first and most famous nude beach.

Wilkes-Barres, Pennsylvania

Wilkes-Barres, Pennsylvania

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Tourists and people unfamiliar with the area inevitably pronounce this towns name as “Wilks-Bar,” which is incorrect. The people who live there are happy to tell you the correct pronunciation, but it will be different depending on who you hear it from. Some locals say “Wilks-Berry,” while others say “Wilks-Bear-A,” and still others pronounce it “Wilks-Bear.”

The name comes from two members of British Parliament, Colonel Isaac Barre and John Wilkes. They were staunch defenders of the American colonies during parliamentary debates. If we could go back in time and ask these guys how they pronounce their names, it would be a lot easier — at the very least, Colonel Barre.

Although Fort Wilkes-Barre was constructed in 1776, it was devastated by war several times before finally getting its city charter in 1871. Coal was its original moneymaker, but soon, the Empire Silk Mill opened, producing Japanese silk garments for women. In 1857, Charles Stegmeir began making beer and by 1916 was shipping out around 200,000 barrels each year which could be the reason there are so many different pronunciations of the town’s name.

Everyone thinks Vegas is a fun place to gamble. But those people haven’t been to Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania. The Mohegan Sun casino is where all the action is. This racetrack/casino has a plethora of cool places to eat, shop, and have some fun when the gambling is done. If you run at a slower pace, try out the Spa Sapphire or one of their signature events for some me-time.

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Leicester, Massachusetts

Leicester, Massachusetts

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Unless you live here, you’d never believe this town is pronounced as “Lest-Ah.” Out-of-towners insist on “Lie-Cess-Ter” or “Lee-Cess-Ter.”

The city’s first name was Towtaid, named by the Nipmuc tribe. It was settled in 1713 when they sold the land to a group of businessmen who changed the name to Strawberry Hill to reflect the abundance of the fruit in the area. It was incorporated in 1722, and the name changed to Leicester to honor First Earl of Leicester, Robert Dudley.

One of the most influential early settlers was Dr. Samuel Green. He trained many doctors during the 1700s, and his home is known as the first medical hospital in the state.

Activities and events are family-oriented. It’s all about picnics in the park and playing disc golf with your pals. A visit to the historic district to tour places such as the May House, allow visitors and locals alike a better understanding of the area.