Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
—Matthew 11:29

Who was the strongest man to ever walk the face of the earth? Jesus Christ. No one was stronger. As the Creator in human form, He simply could have spoken His enemies out of existence.

Do you think He had to submit himself to Pontius Pilate?

Jesus could have said, “You’re getting on my nerves. You’re dead. Bye.”

He could have walked out of there.

On one occasion, people from the synagogue in His hometown of Nazareth tried to throw him off a cliff. But the Bible tells us that “passing through the midst of them, He went His way” (Luke 4:30 NKJV). It was as if to say, “Yeah, I’m not going off a cliff today. I’m going right through here, and you’re getting out of my way.”

Jesus controlled that power, submitted, gave up his rights, and laid himself down. He didn’t lay aside His divinity, but He did lay aside his rights. He suffered for us and died on the cross.

In Matthew 11:29 Jesus said of himself, “I am gentle and lowly in heart” (NKJV).

Joseph, too, is a classic example of meekness. Even though his brothers betrayed him and sold him into slavery, he became the second most powerful man in Egypt through God’s providence.

And later, when a famine struck the land and his brothers went to Egypt in search of food, Joseph was in charge of the food supply. They didn’t recognize him. Certainly they didn’t think he was alive.

Joseph, with a snap of his finger, could have had them all put to death. But instead, he forgave them. That was meekness—power under constraint.

Jesus said, “Blessed are the meek” (Matthew 5:5 NKJV). If you want to be a happy person, then seek to become a man or woman of meekness.


You Have Not Been Forgotten’: Detective Encourages Police Officers to Seek Christ

By    •   October 2019

“What if our perspective changed?” Stephen Parker, a detective with the Charlotte-Mecklenburg (North Carolina) Police Department, challenged his fellow officers at the National Law Enforcement Retreat on Monday. “[What if] instead of asking God, ‘Deliver me from this,’ [we ask], ‘Show me who You are so that I might say there is no one more able than my God.’ That’s where God wants us to be.”

“The Lord is good to those whose hope is in Him, to the one who seeks Him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.”
—Lamentations 3:25-26


It’s a word that Stephen Parker just can’t shake when it comes to the National Law Enforcement Retreat (NLER).

The Charlotte-Mecklenburg (North Carolina) Police detective said he felt liberated in 2014 after he attended the first retreat at the Billy Graham Training Center at The Cove with his wife Cheryl. That’s when—for the first time—the Parkers realized they weren’t alone in the spiritual hardships that law enforcement officials face.

And on Monday night, six years after that first NLER, Parker drew upon the same word. Only this time he dressed it a little differently. This time it was more personal. He rubbed his already red eyes and sat down in The Cove’s auditorium where he had just shared his testimony, including excerpts from his journal, for the first time.

“It’s painfully liberating,” Parker said, leaning back into the seat. “It was really hard for me to talk about this, and I put it off for a long time.”

Parker is now in his fourth year as a speaker for the National Law Enforcement Retreat, hosted by the Billy Graham Rapid Response Team. Many law enforcement officials find his messages relevant because he often teaches Biblical truths as if they were a police case review. One time, his message centered on “If Jesus Were a Cop.” He uses hilarious, somewhat safe, personal anecdotes to drive his messages.

But during the kickoff for this year’s NLER, Parker shelved his usual approach in favor of sheer vulnerability. He didn’t want to. In fact, he had something else planned until this past June. Earlier this year, his wife Cheryl pointed out that nobody really knew his story. And ultimately, God made it clear it was time.

So on Monday night before hundreds, Parker dug deep and shared his testimony. The highly decorated detective talked about his downward spiral and hitting bottom around 2012. That’s when he considered eating his gun simply because he had lost hope. He especially highlighted how Cheryl suffered through his period of darkness. They had begun to live separate lives. He stayed in his darkness. She worked, took care of the kids and ran the house. She felt somewhat blindsided by how deep in the pit he had gotten until he just couldn’t hide it anymore. That was 2013, the year he also began journaling thanks to the advice of a close, faithful friend.

He read some excerpts aloud on Monday for the first time, pausing frequently to collect himself.

March 2013: To fix me, I must fix us … two lonely people walking together.

May 2013: I really believe there is no difference between being alone and being dead. Pink Floyd was right, I have become “comfortably numb.”

July 2013: My God and my Father, I have nothing to offer you but myself. … Help me Father.

October 2013, while awaiting the trial of a three-year case: I’m proud of my accomplishment, but was the price I paid worth it? … I’m sorry for all I missed, the tears I have caused, and for what I became. Now, at the end, I reflect and see what a terrible life it was. Forgive me Lord and lead me home.

November 2013: I have learned so much this year, Jesus is the answer for everything. … I hear Him say, ‘Stay focused on Me, stay focused on Me.’ Help me Lord to love You more.

“Parker knows it’s not about me. It’s about the God that saved me, the God that healed me, the God that gives me hope,” emcee and fellow Rapid Response Team chaplain Kelly Burke later said. “It’s about the God that gives me capacity to be a great cop.

“All the arrests and all the accolades, that’s all going to burn. But what [Parker is] doing now in reflecting God’s hope, God’s light through that broken vessel, is showing these other officers that there’s at least one person who understands where they are.”

Many stopped to shake Parker’s hand or hug him and thank him for his boldness in sharing on Monday. Cheryl also spoke with folks afterward who shared they, too, were in a tough spot. “It’s hard to always relive that struggle,” Cheryl said. “Any time you’ve lived through something rough, you wish you could just close it and never think about it, but I think the Lord wants us to use those things that we’ve gone through to help others.”

Colleagues who knew Parker before Jesus got a hold of his heart admit he was a great cop, but man was he hard to be around. That changed once Parker surrendered to the Lord. Now others gravitate toward him.

“He’s genuine, and he loves the Lord,” said Biblical counselor and fellow NLER speaker Denise Molatch, who first met the Parkers at the 2014 retreat. “He reminds me a lot of my [late] husband because he taught self-defense and literally he could hold his own with anyone, yet he had the softest, sweetest spirit.

“That attracts a lot of police officers. They see that spirit within him, so they’re amazed by that.”

Parker’s message didn’t trigger too many laughs this time around. Yet his raw, authentic approach resonated. Men and women wiped their eyes. Some affirmed Parker with an “Amen” here and there as he illustrated with God’s Word how God meets us where we are. He shared several passages of Scripture, but particularly focused on Lamentations 3 where the prophet Jeremiah believed he dwelled in darkness, out of God’s earshot. But that same man, Parker said, goes on to say God’s steadfast love never ceases.

That truth is one that he and Cheryl came to focus upon during what they now call their years of misery, Parker said. Now, his prayer every day is “God, show me Your glory.”

“It’s only through the love and the steadfast mercy of Jesus Christ that we can say it is well with me,” Parker said in closing, citing a popular worship song the audience sang just before his message. “I know there’s pain in this room. I know there are marriages that need help, and I know there are people sitting here that feel walled off and forgotten by God. You have not been forgotten. He’s waiting. For you.”

Will you embrace the God who lovingly waits for you?

The next National Law Enforcement Retreat will be held in Texas next March. Learn more.

The Method of Missions


Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations…  Matthew 28:19

Jesus Christ did not say, “Go and save souls” (the salvation of souls is the supernatural work of God), but He said, “Go…make disciples of all the nations….” Yet you cannot make disciples unless you are a disciple yourself. When the disciples returned from their first mission, they were filled with joy because even the demons were subject to them. But Jesus said, in effect, “Don’t rejoice in successful service— the great secret of joy is that you have the right relationship with Me” (see Luke 10:17-20). The missionary’s great essential is remaining true to the call of God, and realizing that his one and only purpose is to disciple men and women to Jesus. Remember that there is a passion for souls that does not come from God, but from our desire to make converts to our point of view.

The challenge to the missionary does not come from the fact that people are difficult to bring to salvation, that backsliders are difficult to reclaim, or that there is a barrier of callous indifference. No, the challenge comes from the perspective of the missionary’s own personal relationship with Jesus Christ— “Do you believe that I am able to do this?” (Matthew 9:28). Our Lord unwaveringly asks us that question, and it confronts us in every individual situation we encounter. The one great challenge to us is— do I know my risen Lord? Do I know the power of His indwelling Spirit? Am I wise enough in God’s sight, but foolish enough according to the wisdom of the world, to trust in what Jesus Christ has said? Or am I abandoning the great supernatural position of limitless confidence in Christ Jesus, which is really God’s only call for a missionary? If I follow any other method, I depart altogether from the methods prescribed by our Lord— “All authority has been given to Me….Go therefore…” (Matthew 28:18-19). From My Utmost for His Highest Updated Edition

Bible in One Year: Jeremiah 12-14; 2 Timothy 1

The Strength of Christ’s Unity, Day 2


Today’s reading is drawn from Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 and John 17:21-23.

Unity is a triple-braided cord. One friend plus another plus Christ make the cord not easily broken. Our commitment to Christ binds us irrevocably to each other. We find our oneness in Him (John 17:21–23). We begin to think, feel, hope, and work with unity of purpose and direction.

When Christ is the source and center of a friendship, negative forces cannot pull us apart. There is a buffer of Christ’s grace when we fail or disappoint each other. We belong to Him and to each other in spite of what happens around us. Christ longs for us to know the same oneness with one another that He has with the Father (verse 11).

To implement the answer to His own prayer for us, He engenders in us love, forgiveness, and patience for one another. When Christ is the unbreakable strand in the triple-braided cord, it cannot be severed. Praise Him for truly great friendships in which He is the strength of the relationship.

A very short visit Update. My ex-husband almost killed me by strangulation.

On the 31 we are going to see Toby’s mom up lake County northern florida.

I will bring a jacket since I think is a lot cooler up north. Lol.

I am serious!

We will be back on the 2nd.

Toby is finally taking a week off work.

She is my mother in law but we are ok thank God because at the very beginning of my relationship with Toby she hated me.

Things are much better.

When I met Toby in Norfolk Virginia I made sure I told him to call his mother often. I want and did United families before. With my first husband. Yes I was married a long long time ago with the man that did 1 good thing. He gave me my child. My little girl kim, now I can’t believe it, in her early 40s.

His name was Don and he was an abuser hurt me quite a bit to the point that one night he dragged me naked from our bedroom to my child’s then, 7 years old my Kim. Likely she did not hear me as I kept silent in my pain.

Well that is not important anymore. God healed me.

I will love on her as they say at Celebrate Recovery for as long as I live only because of God’s love for us.the flesh screams, wants to be bitter but she is just an older Lady that needs love. I told Toby we had to go see her. His is duty and he loves his mom so, we will.

Just talking…



Child of God.

Insight The daily Bread.

In Mark 4 (see also Matthew 13:1–3; Luke 5:1–3), Mark tells us the crowd that gathered to hear Jesus speak was so large that He climbed into a boat to teach them. Why do that? Because sound travels farther on the water. And on the shores of the Sea of Galilee or Lake of Gennesaret (also called Sea of Tiberias) near Capernaum is a naturally formed amphitheater. It slopes downward to the sea on an inlet or bay—today called the Bay of Parables—where a crowd of thousands could have comfortably sat and where the acoustics would have made it easy for the people to hear Christ’s words.

To learn more about the geography of the biblical land visit christianuniversity.org/NT110.